April 2010

Since I am newly single and becoming a bit sick of men and their crap, I am turning over a new leaf when it comes to my sex life and sex in general. I am finding myself less sex-obsessed. Yes, that is what I said. I am starting to see things in a new light. When it comes to sexual behavior and sex, I, Caicee Quinn am going to abstain from all of it! I am taking control of my life and sex no longer has control over me.

Take pornography, for example. I don't think it has a place in society-let alone in a drawer in someone's dresser or on a high shelf in the back of a bedroom closet. I will be honest, I think it is disgusting. Watching other people engaging in sex acts and sexual behavior is gross. Besides, there are thousands of people who are sexually addicted to porn now. Porn in the home has the potential to create a broken home. I am, and have been for a while now, abstaining from its use. The dirty pictures that guys used to send to my phone are now gone.

The form of sexual expression that I find most disgusting is masturbation. Having your hands all over your junk and placing objects in and out of...well you get it, it is just appalling. I find the act of masturbating to be unhygienic.  It is hard not to think about such things when I am shaking someone's hand. I think, "Did he spank his monkey today and, if so, did he wash his hands?"  Germs and viruses are serious things to think about. Just one of the reasons that I am now abstaining from this disgusting act and have rid myself of all of my toys.

Beyond masturbation, I am also abstaining from sex. Sex is an act between two people who love each other.  Since I am not in love with anyone and I am no longer in a relationship, I have no need to have sex. Sex is not for recreational purposes. Sex is not an animal act. Sex is not something that should be done out of boredom. The days of orgies, threesomes, gangbangs and casual sex are now out. I am no longer interested. Since there is no love in my life, there is no sex.

Some of you will understand the control and freedom that comes from removing sex from your life.  I have more insight into myself, since I have started enjoying abstinence. Abstaining from all sexual behavior is freeing and COMPLETE AND TOTAL CRAP! I say shag, shag, shag! April Fool's Day!

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